I'm far from being an expert here, so vets please chime in if I'm wrong - but I think the best thing is to always appear calm and contented. As Train said above, "good!" is a simple and noncommittal answer that will work just fine. If you can't be enthusiastic or cheerful, at least try to be calm and smile with your answer - like nothing at all can mess with your inner peace. Think zen! It works on so many levels, and it confuses them - you are supposed to be falling apart over losing her - and it will make your W pay attention and wonder why you are so calm.


Me: 31 H: 37
T: 10 M: 9
BD: 2012
H draws up papers: Oct. 2014
H files: Oct. 2015
D final: was Feb. 10, now postponed b/c I hired L.
Currently: wondering if it's kinder just to let him go. So confused.