"Mr bond when it all came out and since I have asked to just stop lying but she continues to whilst trying to be my friend."
And what boundaries did you put in place? You said that she works with the OM so they have to see each other. Do you honestly think she would feel comfortable at telling you she was with him? That's why she's not comfortable at telling you the truth.
"There is a lot of cake eating going on now. It would be easier if she just didn't say anything but she feels the need to lie."
Probably because of the way you've been acting around her.
"No she has never said she will not see OM. They work together. It is not going to stop I know that. I can deal with that. It's the continued lying that's wearing me down."
So why don't you tell her that? Tell her that if she's seeing the other guy to just tell you and you'll be okay with it.
"The other day she was as typical waw script saying please don't hate me which was her saying she is continuing to see him without actually saying it."
No that's not what it means. That's mindreading. You two have a child together and with all the hate that you have in you, of course she doesn't want to hurt you. There are MANY WASs on here who purposely go out of their way to hurt the LBS. You're lucky your W isn't one of them.
Rather than sitting around and complaining about it, go and talk to her about it.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
