Have an appt. with a DB coach today. I definitely need it after my interactions with H. He was being very nice, but of course, it was just so that he could talk to me about getting an apartment. In FACT, he said his MOM would WATCH the kids while we went out to talk about it. Funny, the woman never offered to watch the kids so we could TALK ABOUT OUR MARRIAGE!!!!!
Sorry, need to vent. I've had it up to here with H and his family— a bunch of wanna-be stoics who actually are just passive aggressive and ignoring real issues in their lives.
Here are some fun gems from talking to H today: • H-"I see the kids as much as I did when I was living here." Excuse, me, what? You mean the three days a week, one or two of which you dump them with your mom for the day while you go "work?" • "I think you'd love an apartment. It would give you a much-needed break. Especially if you're working full-time!" • To my response of "I just don't think me moving out or even getting an apartment to 'bird nest' is a good idea. We've had too many changes already." H: "What changes?"
FACE PLANT Will the aliens who abducted my H please bring him back? You have to be done with him by now!
Me: 38 H: 43 Kids: 2,4 T10 M6 BD: 1/14 11/14: H moves out