I think I can meet with her tonight with no expectations that she has changed her mind but if this is an ever so slight "thawing" - maybe it is an opportunity to listen to her and show her that I am different??

or does that approach not align at all with DB'ing? very confused (and reacting emotionally) at the moment...............


Me-48,W-51
M-22,T-24
S- 18,16,9
Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date
Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch
Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only
Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork