One question I do have (and that concerns me because it would be very easy to get wrong) is when you can go into deeper r talk. I've been operating on the idea that it's when was brings it up and not before because its falling into pursuit.

I'm not about to start long emotional conversations or calls or talks but I do wonder at what point its back on the table without missing an opportunity. Issue here is w is not one to bring up her feelings as she is very much an internal and dont externalise person I wonder is it something she's waiting on me to do.

However I tend to think that's a romantic thought and reality is it would just reinforce pursuit and suffocation and push her away so noooooo not now and stick with detached warm validation.


M:44, W:46, S:10
M 13 years, T 15
BD:23/7/2014
W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014
My new place: 21/11/2014
W/S back to flat 22/11/2014
W coming closer, talking 4/2015
Piecing 5/2015
Moving in again 6/2015