uR, I know you are right. He has way too much going in, and I don't control that. Nor do I want to. I don't even want him if it's a question for him. He has a long way to go.
He is buried so deeply. He has no perspective. He has no idea how to get out. So he is grasping at the only hand waving in the area. Hww's. And it is for selfish reasons. He will take whatever is available, even if it's the devils hand.
But I know, he has to climb out himself in order to get to where he needs to be. So he can have perspective.
He may never do it. And unless he shuts her down for an opportunity of peace and contemplation, it will be difficult.
But- not my deal.
I'm going with what 2b said.
Ok, 2b- supposed to see Harlem globetrotters tomorrow. D13 has a game and her coach called last nigh upset about it. I bought tix before the season for christmS presents.