Vdubber you will know that you GAL, detachment process and life improvements are working for you when you don't remember how many days its been since you've had contact. I remember those days so well. Keep the faith and press forward. It will feel better as you continue detachment and taking care of yourself emotionally and physically.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14