Thanks for the advice. If it crops up again which im sure it will im going to have to say something.
On another point. What are your thoughts on NC when I move out. My wife again yesterday in an effort to keep my plate spinning said why don't we all go to the cinema on Sunday inc D8. Now before BD this is what we were doing. Its enjoyable family time. Since BD I want to spend as little time with wife as possible because I don't believe a word she says. When I move out my intention is to leave her to it. Be friendly and civil regarding our D8 but I wont be popping around for tea or family nights in or generally being there for her like I have been. She needs to see the consequences of her actions. My d8 will be the one that suffers also though. Would you advocate that if it is a family thing e.g. D8 friends party or taking her to cinema that it is acceptable for us to do so as a family or would you recommend that one of us takes D8 on our own. Currently I take her horse riding and ice skating on my own anyway.
Me:40 W:35 D:8 T:13 M:10 WAW: 7/14 PA Discovered: 1/15 at least 6 months Moved out and moved on
