Originally Posted By: ganb8te
I think 7-8 months might be one of those difficult time points when we really start to question where this is going. I kind of committed myself to 6 months and now I'm stretching beyond that. Feels kind of like I've entered the abyss.


That's exactly how I am feeling. I guess somehow I thought this can't last beyond 6 months, something would have changed. I would have met someone new or he would be back. But here we are still in the same crappy place. At least I am.

What can we do?


Me: 34 H: 30
M: 4 years
BD: 6/15/14
He moved out 6/30/14
OW1: EA then PA after BD
Now he's dating multiple OWs
I'm over it and moving on.