KGirl - one year later con't

[KGirl]

I've got a lovely pre-Valentine's day date for myself planned for February 13. I have the day off.. so far my plans involve a trip to the cell phone store to get a new phone (after 2 years with this one, it's ready to be dumped), Olive Garden for lunch, then maybe a movie?? More fun than I'd have with an actual date at this point, I think

H was hoping we would both file our financial disclosures this week, but I've had a cold since Monday and have been in no mood to sit down and do that (even just sitting at the computer makes me achy). I waited a year for him to figure his sh*t out, he can wait another week for me to fill out the form, I figure.

No contact from FB friend guy. So far we are just FB friends. I felt like if I started liking all of his pictures and posts that would be a little too much.. so I'm waiting to see if my friends arranging any group event or outing. I have, however, used the friend status to scope out his profile I don't even know what I would say in a message that wouldn't sound weird at this point. "Hi! I'm not sure if you remember, but we met back in December at Madison's bar... we talked a little bit and I thought it was fun. I know you just moved back to town and maybe you could use some more people to hang out with.. would you want to hang out sometime?" I don't know, I have no idea how the dating thing works! It's not like in HS where you get your friend to ask the guy if he likes you, or leave an anonymous note in his locker "circle yes or no" type thing.