Thanks, Toots. It is very difficult, but at the same time, I have been more relaxed without his comings and goings. I believe preventing more resentment is my first step, and that is so much easier right now. I think being physically separated will allow me to ease up on resenting and lessen the probability of more build up. I can definitely feel more detached now, and although he is still in contact with me, I have kept my end of it mainly about S14, and the house.
