Thank you RysingMan. I am sorry for your situation and yes I know I need to maintain NC but I honestly don't know how long there should be NC. How many weeks? If she tries to contact me how long do I avoid her or decline to see her ? At some point when I feel confident in my changes I hope she has the opportunity to see me and notice.
M: 44 W: 45 Married 26 Together 28 D: 22, S: 18, S: 9, D: 7 S: 12/2013, seperate houses OM revealed first 10/2013, stopped seeing him OM revealed 1/2015, been going on for quite some time