Thank you RysingMan. I am sorry for your situation and yes I know I need to maintain NC but I honestly don't know how long there should be NC. How many weeks? If she tries to contact me how long do I avoid her or decline to see her ? At some point when I feel confident in my changes I hope she has the opportunity to see me and notice.


M: 44 W: 45
Married 26
Together 28
D: 22, S: 18, S: 9, D: 7
S: 12/2013, seperate houses
OM revealed first 10/2013, stopped seeing him
OM revealed 1/2015, been going on for quite some time