Rzr,

My hat's off to you, bro. I just ... man, I just can't even.

I can empathize. That's about all I can say right now.

I did want to echo sandi's idea, though, that you consider bringing up setting boundaries around the discussions ... and one boundary is that you won't listen to all that OM-diarrhea in your ear.

That's just ... no.
Whew.

Have you tried that with W?


M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014