Ss, I hope the testing reveals some useful information for you. Your daughter sounds quite gifted and gifted kids are often quirky. But it may very well go beyond that and I hope you get some answers.
My D16 was a gifted quirky kid. She read early, had an incredible vocabulary at an early age, used words and concepts the other kids didn't understand. She didnt really fit in with them in elementary school. She had friends, yes, but I can't say she was ever one of them. She could not sit and behave herself for long periods of time. The teachers who understood her best realized she was bored stiff and provided something else for her. The good news is that she grew into herself. When she turned 13 I found it a relief that she finally turned the age she had been displaying for years. Now she's almost 17 and still quite mature but has no behavioral issues, other than being a hard headed 17 year old girl
The boarding school comment would have infuriated me.
