Hi June, I understand how you feel. My STBX was supported by me for many years through his long custody trial. I felt doubly betrayed when he suddenly decided he wanted to split. My story is in my first thread Surviving the rollercoster.

A 180 can be showing vulnerability. It can be how you respond to him. You want to avoid begging and pleading and try to show a PMA when he is around.that doesn't mean be cold.

Me 52 H 44
T9 M 5
BD 12/11 H
split 8/12
OW moved in 12/12
OW gone for good 6/14
We get closer again 9/14
SD 13 Me 4 Grown





Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.