Get what you mean completely gg both on specifics and on rhc, definitely a case to take slowly for both your sakes if you go the bf route.
On h that's certainly something that's going to take time regardless of the outcome. I keep saying it 'cause it's true, you're doing great
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015