May the page . :)

[Ggrass]

Well coffees on being nuked.

I was norty, had a hot chicken Sanger!
Bloody starving tho. I should have tried to resist but meh, it smelled so gooooooooood!

Yeah, the cute dude should get the hint. I think asking mutal friend where the cute due came from just might start those blokes talking!

Need to feed hounds and finish coffee prep..... brb.

[edz]

ttfn... off to pour more coffee

[Ggrass]

Well drank second coffee. Off to have a tub.

Caught up with mate by phone haven't spoken to her for most of this week, given she worries at times. It was due.

No cute dude today. Rhc mum wandered in, saw her in the distance.
Well this weeks gone fast, not sure why but a couple of hics of anxiety, out of the blue.

So guys, men, how do I show the cute dude he needs to ask?
My thought work on touch, build repoir. if I get a chance I might work weekend plans Into our chat.

I just don't seem to be able to push past and ask, something holds me back. Mmm
Ponders why?
Self protection, fear? Combination
Hope? Mmm not sure

[edz]

Enjoy the tub.

Well first thing to ask if is he wont ask you do you want him to in the first place? Our Gg deserves someone who's interested in her. Or is it that he seems interested but not approaching?

Do you know about any activities he gets up to (steady!) that you could "be there" at and just bump into him (steady again!) occidentally?

As to you not asking, dont beat yourself up on it (see the post I made on Jims thread) enjoy the view for a while and relax.

If you genuinely do want to ask but stop yourself then probably its just you dont know what he'll say, whats the db mantra, no expectations just do the whole twirl the hair and ask and then wonder off mysteriously (for some reason Im running Gloria Grahame in Its a wonderful life in my head here).

Anyhoo more coffee and back to work for me, catch you later

[Ggrass]

Nothing, for the cute dude.

Rhc well his fave thing might be on this weekend, I'm going to be sly about it.
So far I have popped up a few times on him. either he's going to feel flattered or stalked!

Although last week I'm pretty sure he had no idea why I was giggling so much, his wife just tickled my funny bone. With her was spew.

Keeping rowing forwards! Lol while being distracted with the view...... Sigh.

I think hormones are playing a part again (feeling ravenous always a bad bad sign). Sish and men think it's tough. Rolls eyes.

[jim0987]

It is tough for men....

Asking or not?. If he did ask what would you say?

Sometimes its best to answer the question that hasn't been asked and avoid all the games.

Its always good to take in a nice view though

[Sotto]

I was once famously asked out by a colleague who I quite liked. And I was so panicked when he asked me, I said "out?!" I did later apologise, and we never did end up going out for various reasons..

I never lived it down with my colleagues, who years later would say "out??!!" and he ended up marrying someone else.

Hopefully I can deal with it more calmly (if it happens) this time around.....

[Ggrass]

I know I have a history of freaking! The dj remember?

It did stuff things up, but he wasn't going to be around for more than weeks.
I don't seem to be good win being spring on dj did spring me, it's wasnt a thought I had entertained. Very young dude.

Unfortunately rhc made sort of noises, but I wsnt quick enough to turn it round.
From no I can go tomorrow, to how bout Sunday? He was to airy, could have been just conversation.

[Ggrass]

Oh and like a few I had a deadline, its expired. Bd, was 2/2 been and gorn.

This weekend I need to work on the rest of my papers for the L and get that going.
Other things are surfacing now, things that didn't make sense at the time, but now seen in another light they make perfect sense.

The rumors of how bad h is with his quality at work does make me think more and more he is suffering demture or he is deliberately sabatouging his own work to create more work to generate more income.

Which could explain a lot with either of those theories, the deliberate would actually explain a whole lot more. It's almost as if he's "getting" back at his female clientele and has been for years. They seem to have more drama, must be me. Just being paranoid, given h definitely did the wrong thing by me. Perhaps I see an altered reality.

The fact some customers complained could be sour grapes. Not sure why this has popped into my mind today. I decided write it down throw it away. Let it go.

[edz]

Evening gg

I said you needed to get a lariat remember?

So what was this with rhc? previous post I saw you said he had an event this weekend, come on .... Details

As to h, human nature being what it is we all can view events through a glass darkly. Given some of the stuff you've mentioned I dont think anyone would begrudge you every thought. The fact that you then question whether you're being fair says (to me at least) you are being so. Don't beat yourself up.