I have a question for anyone and every one. Since this has been brought up. How do "court" a wife that is in an active affair?


Like in recent, I have been doing stuff with the kids. Like dinner or other fun stuff. And she has asked or made a comment that she would have liked to join in. Or even last night she brought up that new movie "Fifty Shades of Grey". Like she wanted to see it but had no one to see it with. Do I start to ask to do this stuff with her? From what I've learnt, you let them come to you. Let them do some work.

Thanks
3kids


M36/W30
S13,D10,S6
Married 4.5 together 12
Bomb 1/14
EA/PA OM 1/14 still going
Served 2/14/14
Separated 3/14
D paused 6/14
6/15 divorced