Originally Posted By: gogofo
Originally Posted By: Barrybran
If you don't believe divorce is the answer, live your life according to that belief rather than telling her about it.

Any suggestions on how to do this, besides wearing a shirt that says "divorce is wrong"... HA!

In my mind continuing to live like a loving husband in the home while we share it is one way to do it. Don't know if this is correct or not though.


When something comes up, ask yourself if it aligns with your beliefs. The caveat is that you should also respect your wife's thoughts and feelings. If you need time to mull things over, take it.


Me: 31, W: 29
T: 4 M: 2
Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3)
Separated, still living together: Nov 2013
Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014
W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014