So I am divorced.

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Mozza, TLE, Squiggy, Bravo, and last but definitely not least, Lost,
Thank you all for checking in.

I've been busy lately, with work travel, headed out of state for a long weekend with the munchkins to their cousin's, and working to wrap things up (divorce paperwork, loan for STBX, canceling all bills in her name, etc).

I have definitely been detaching, and I feel as if she is starting to feel it. Unfortunately, working out took a back seat over this little break, but I am going to resume the routine today. She has reached out to me almost every day (via text or email, never a call) with some sort of required action or piece of information. I keep responses light and short. I have no idea of what if anything she is doing with her life, she is not forthcoming with any information, has totally withdrawn from all social media and does not press me for any information about my life. I have also received a lot of buy-in on my startup, which is great to occupy my time when alone, and help me get to the point of working on my passion and not for the man.

I am going to revisit my 180s. Re-read DR. Re-read the Solo Partner. Re-read Talk to Me Like Someone You Love. And work the miscellaneous odds and ends. I have not sent her the letter. I will revisit that with my IC tomorrow. I also have not adjusted my Facebook relationship status. I have been waiting for her to do that. I wonder if I should bite the bullet?