Remember me urging you to get out out of your own way? Let life teach W the consequences of her own choices.
Nope. You JUST had to say something about "this weekend" because you JUST want to show her and stick it to her.
By having access to the schedule, S12 will see for himself how she's not keeping her commitments and he'll be the one to express his disappointment. It is on W to deal with the fallout directly. It is NOT your responsibility to point it out.
Originally Posted By: HPoirot
I do feel it's right to call her on her failing to keep her commitment to S12 and me and then being evasive about it. For her to respond by saying in a very self-righteous tone, "If you don't want to bother watching him let me know," is irritating... her again trying to blame me when I clearly say I'm happy I get to keep S12... that's not the point. The point is, do you respect us to keep your commitments and to be honest and considerate when you can't. I'm sure I can do better then poking her anger.
Remember this thing about "emotions"?? Hence the 24-hour rule to get one at a much more calmer place. Acting and/or reacting out of emotions does NOBODY any good. Especially the LBS.
Whose fault is it for having W respond to you in a snarky way? Your opening wasn't exactly collaborative at all.
Stop trying to get in the way and messing things up. It just gets an egg on your face and you come out looking like a jerk.
Seriously. Grow a pair and tell W in no uncertain terms that you expect access to the schedule. Your S12 deserves stability.
I'd be happy to assist with the email draft to W about the schedule. This nonsense needs to END right now. Up to you.
