Originally Posted By: jim0987
Susana, I know what you mean. Starting to be more openly appreciative and complimentary was/is a bit weird for me. Sometimes it just feels/felt a bit false. The more I do it the easier it gets

for what its worth i think the example you gave was good - probably because you really meant it

so the only tip i really have is keep doing it and be honest, over time it will become more natural.


Thanks Jim. And I'm glad it sounded sincere, because I did really mean it. That makes sense. Perhaps it's just a case of making sure I'm really present and notice what's going on around me and don't overlook things. I suppose it's just keeping my eyes open for opportunities, and being honest.


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