Honestly, I really don't think she sees me as Plan B right now. Maybe she does and I'm just reading this all wrong, but I think right now she is thinking that she'd rather be alone if she can't be with OW... I could be wrong on that, but I don't think so...

But you what? I am worth SO much more than just being Plan B... If there is anything higher than Plan A -- that's me... She should consider me the ONLY option. If she doesn't then that's her loss and proof that she's in a complete fog :-)

Me 48, Her 50
(Same-Sex Couple)
3 Children
Together: 9.5 years before BD
BD: Week of 10/27/14
ExW started EA w OW 9/2014
ExW married OW 12/2015