Just read an article about the difference between love and infatuation. What if the love between me and my W was just infatuation? I'm sure that's what she is thinking, which makes it very real. And there's a lot of truth in it. She is right But then I made her the promise and married her. Didn't take enough care of her, and the love died fast and through all the pain I realized what went wrong, what I did wrong. Then when she was gone already I recommitted to my M, started to love my W the way I should. But it came too late and maybe her love really was just infatuated. True or not, as long as she thinks that I have zero chance to save my marriage. She basically first has to feel like I'm a good friend and then fall in love with me again.
Painful insight...I don't know what to think, it's a serious though, or if this should change my plan. Phew..
Learn how people fall "in love". But remember you are not the problem here, she is. Perhaps you where always more infatuated with her than she was you. Some of this info will help you in current or future relationships.
