Thanks Bright and Ggrass! It is kinda fun to mess with him a little.

So I noticed he's trying to lighten the mood the last few days. His texts include lots of smiley faces and joking. ( we only text about kids and financial stuff). And surprisingly I'm able to joke a little too after being so angry for several months. Maybe there is something to be said for having closure on this chapter.

I think the funniest was yesterday I texted him saying I got a message from my lawyer that his lawyer said the settlement sheet he submitted was incomplete and he had to redo it. So I texted asking if I should expect any big changes. He said no it was just he left out all the " crap" ( ie stuff owned in each house, bank accounts etc) and his lawyer considered that incomplete. I responded ok just didn't want any surprises. He sent me back a text saying he would expect a nerf bullet to the head of he changed a single thing after our meeting this weekend ( yes that is his twisted sense of humor). I sent back " yeah my head would spin around and I would vomit green".

Maybe this chapter ending will be good for both of us. Who knows what the future holds and who it will be with- but I know there's lots of awesomeness in store as long as I keep focus on the positive!


Me 41 H 40
M 20 T 23
S 19,16, 8 D 13
BD1 dec 2012 not sure going to work
BD2 sep 2013 seeking a D
Filed oct 2013, D Feb 2015
Life is about daring greatly, about being in the arena- Brene Brown