I think one of the benefits of praise, is that you can also praise behaviours that you'd like to see more of. Does that sound like manipulation as I write it? I question everything nowadays!! Susana, this is from a fellow perfectionist, who is trying to relax her standards!
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus