She couldn't afford her rent but now can get a tv? Not your problem but it makes me wonder who is helping. Her parents perhaps?

Tom, I am glad you had a great time with your kids. That is what is important, not just for them but you too. Good for you realizing that is what is important. Keep that focus it will help you as time goes on.

kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory