Toots, edz thank you for the consider and thoughtful replies.
Toots you raised a couple of things that I'd like to come back to but they deserve a more thought out response.
Don't worry Im not pursuing it, I think its a case of taking things out of the box and just giving them a good looking at to see how I feel and what I think with all my normal processing
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
