Yes, I agree with Barry - you've said this isn't your choice. You don't need to tell her that again. She may well be presenting it to others as a 'mutual' decision - it makes her 'look' better probably (in her view) if she does that....not much you can do about that though.
The rest of your plan sounds good though...
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
