When you talk about a 'good outcome' I would agree that we don't see loads of sitches that lead to reconciliation. But I'm conscious of the often long time frames of sitches too.
I think what we see more of is sitches where the LBS moves on in a genuinely happy place, which I feel is a good outcome. And I keep trying to tell myself that - have faith that we may or we may not reconcile, but this work I'm doing and the approach I'm taking should be 'healing' in the longer term and help me move forward happily.
Hope you and the kids are doing ok OD. I agree with you about the lovely people on this board....it's hard not to be just a little bit in love with everyone here!! x
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
