The other people's threads are wrong. You can't "make" someone see something or suffer something. There are just actions and reactions to those actions. Bottom line is that you can only do what you want to do and control your own actions.
Copy that.. I just keep seeing people saying about making the WAS own their decision.. Guess I was looking too much in to it..
Me:35 W:31 S6 + S9 T: 10 years M: 7 years BD: 7/2014 S: 8/2014 W has new BF: 12/2014 Still fighting the good fight!!..