Hey Jbird....focus on you and your relationship with your kids. Know that no matter what you will be ok. Detaching comes with GaL keeping busy and moving forward. If your wife catches up that's up to her. You will still have a full and happy life.

Me 52 H 44
T9 M 5
BD 12/11 H
split 8/12
OW moved in 12/12
OW gone for good 6/14
We get closer again 9/14
SD 13 Me 4 Grown





Accept what is...let go of what was and have faith in what will be.