Update.

It's been awhile and I'm sure the people I knew here are gone but anyway....

About 2 months ago my ex said she was 5 weeks pregnant with douchebag. She also said she might miscarry in a week. I haven't heard either way since nor do I care.

I can confidently say that I'm detached from her nonsense. I've been doing my own thing and gone through my share of ups and downs without her in my thoughts.... Meaning, I'm living my own life with little regard to what she feels or thinks. The ups and downs have nothing to do with her. That might not come across accurately... Basically, I'm living my life without thinking of her. She still seems very dramatic with her life and I really don't care anymore. The sh*t she says to me is mind blowing. I won't get into but it's to the point where I feel bad for her.

Anyway,im feeling good and my son is still the most important thing to me. Work and side jobs are going nicely.

I just want to say sh*t does get easier. I was a total wreck early on, but I've picked my ass up and I know you newcomers can too.


Me-35 Com law-28
S-3
T-6 yrs w/14 mnth bu
1st bu- 2/2012
Rec-4/2013
2nd bu-10/2013
IC-2 yrs(anger issues)
MC- 5 mnths-fail
OM~1/1/14 OM dumped 6/4/14
New OM ~10/4/14