To be honest SRD, you sound like you got it! You seem very mature, focused on the right now. Not like me and other people in here that are continuously hanging onto the past, not being able to move forward. I think you made some good process. I wish you all the best of luck that W will at some point realize. Continue being the man only a fool would leave. How long is OM in the picture? I read an article on another marriage saving homepage that said that emotions in an A in almost all cases last between 3 months and 36 months before they fade. I guess it's true for most R, where feelings start to fade after 2-3 years.
Me 32 (German) Wife 28 T 3yrs M 2yrs Moved to US for W No kids BD 6/2014 In house separation Confirmed EA 1/2015 (ongoing since BD) OM not ready Real D talk started 1/27/15