Mighty, I cannot say any more than what was already said here by others. The only thing I know is that he keeps sucking you into his mess. I also know how hard it is to resist the thoughts and feelings that come with that. Considering all this cr@p that is going on, I think you are doing remarkably well.

I’m sure hww is pulling her “magic” on xh. I’m also sure it is more calculations and manipulations on her part than feelings. You have feelings. She doesn’t. It is hard to compete. She is probably the best she can be right now, trying to woo him back. It is going to change. As soon as she feels comfortable, she will go back to her usual selfish self. And xh will be running again…

Not that this matters for you right now. You do need to separate yourself from it. It would be great if you could go somewhere for the weekend. I wish you would be close, so we could do something together.

Hope you are having a good night of sleep. Thinking of you smile

M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state