Zew - The Divorce Care group starts the last week of February "one town over" over from me - so if its a bust with bitter people I won't run into them on a day to day basis.
I'm interested in your take on trust. Are trust and security the same thing? I wonder. For me trust is the end result of a being in a place of security and confidence. I see what you're saying about consistent responses over time, but, for instance I can see being totally neurotic about any future partner's texting and phone calls, regardless of how well they might behave. I know I have a choice in this, but I worry that a casualty of this whole fiasco will be the affable, easy going Raliced.
