Jbird 1

I need some advice about my situation. I live with W and take care of our SND20.

I am trying a new thread to see if more people will checkout my thread and offer more input. (I hope I linked my old thread)

My issue is trying detach, do 180s and validate at the same time. Validation seems to get the best results this time around. While detaching is hard to do because of having to take care of SND20 and living the same house as W.


M 53
W 44
D25 D20 S22
PA 10/95
BD abt 2k EA
BD 9/2004 PA D'd 1/05/05
DB'd 9/2004-08 PA ends 02/2005
XW rehab 03/2005 piecing until OM3 June?/2005
Remarried 12/28/07
BD 12/18/14
Sep living together