How could you ever trust him again (for that matter how will you trust anyone again)?
Raliced, this thought crosses my mind as well, and when it does, I remind myself of what trust is. Trust comes from observing a consistent response to a given stimulus. Simple as that. You will trust again. Even in lesser matters, your H will, over time, give a consistent response, (good or bad) and you will learn to trust that.
In other words, you will learn to expect a response to any given situation. It may sound a little Pavlovian. It also reminds me that we are told not to have expectations, and yet, that's all that trust is. Just goes to show how fragile it is.
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How could you ever move forward with him after all he has done? It's just not possible.
I'll be honest here - each time I ask myself this, I am less sure of the answer. But I'm also OK with that. I am raising the bar on what it takes to get with Zew. How could I ever move forward with W? She'd have to bring her best game, that's how. And although I haven't seen it lately, as I recall, W had pretty good game, so I can't rule out the possibility, even as I watch the probability diminish. Open mind costs nothing.
