The awakening of me Part 3

[mleigh4]

Thank you Job, I do appreciate your warnings and my eyes are wide open! I do a house check each day at lunch and each night. I tend to think the best of people and it has bitten me in the you know what many times.

So H showed up, with his felon buddy. Said he came to move the Jeep for me then was headed to Walmart to do some shopping. Ya right, took the day off work and picked up his buddy to go shopping at Walmart? So I had a quick chat with him. Asked if he was planning on taking any further things from the house today and that maybe when he does we can go over it, or split things up. He got a little defensive and I told him whoa, this is not war, I want this as calm and smooth as possible for all of us. He said he has only taken a few things here and there, but to let him know if he takes anything I need and he will bring it back. So I said, well, that's why I say maybe when you take something we go over it together. So he said he has barely taken anything, that he is trying to leave as much as possible and I said I have noticed that and thanked him. So he looked around and said he was going to take some pictures, but can just buy some stuff. Then he mentioned taking some of our trinkets over the bar, like Jack Daniels pictures and bottles and stuff. So I was thinking and not saying anything, and he said actually, I really don't need that kind of stuff right now. So I said, H, if you decide for this to be long term, or forever, just let me know and we can start splitting stuff up. It's no problem, no worries. He just said ok. He asked about our agreement on the money again, how to handle expenses and I reminded him what we had agreed on. I also asked that he be really careful if he is at the house and I am not because kitty runs for the door, and she is not chipped or spayed yet, too young. I told him S and I will be devestated if she gets out and lost. He just said, ya, I know. He has left the door wide open several times, "forgetting" about the cat. He also leaves doors unlocked. Drives me crazy. So then off he went.

I think the talk went well, but I don't assume he will do anything we talked about. Eyes wide open and aware