WAH - gone almost 1 year, still so hard.

[stacey9]

Thanks rpp and raliced.

H thought this was going to be so easy - I'd have the house but no rights to his pension and he'd be free of the mortgage, he even said it was win win for him.

But there are assets which are proving difficult to prove, he didn't even mention one of them to his L.

You are right I do need to do what's best for me, he only thought about himself when he left us.

It does matter to me what people think though, and this does have the potential for h to make this look as if I'm taking what's not mine. Some of his family tend to think the house and all the nice things we have are his as he paid for them as he earned more. I think it's an old fashioned thing. They don't understand that it was because I worked part time for years bringing up the kids.

He is now living with ow and they are both on good salaries.

I'll just need to stay strong and keep my head up.

Thanks for your support.