Mighty, Right now, he's just not baked and no one knows what he is thinking and what he's going to do. In fact, he doesn't know himself. He's a really confused individual who feels cornered and knows that he's got some difficult decisions to make. It's sad when you think about it...he had a really nice life and then it was blown to bits and now other things have been tossed into the mix. I do hope that one day, he'll settle down and make the right decision as to what he wants to do w/the rest of his life and who he wants to share it with.
Mighty, we are all family and that's what family does...support each other. We are here for you and your family 24/7.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.