"I plan on apologizing and explaining myself to her when she gets home from work."
Why? You don't owe her an explanation.
I'd say the #1 issue in our marriage is communication. I could have just said something like "i don't feel like talking about it, maybe later" but i just gave her a 1 word answer and it was rude of me.
M:39 W:35 Married: 12 years Together: 16 years No kids D bomb: 1/17/15 Filed 1/29/15 Moving out 2/2015