The awakening of me Part 3

[mleigh4]

Thanks everyone, you really help to put this into perspective, how silly it is.

And Cali....Ratatouille... I burst out laughing at work. It set off a set of giggles that I really needed. Thank you!!

I will not sweat the small stuff, a lot of stuff can be replaced at the dollar store. It's really odd though. Like he is just grabbing whatever. I will let the small stuff go, but will nicely and calmly bring up a couple of items.

And the candle holder he took? Thanks to Job, I had taken pics of the rooms and looked at it, and there is no way that was a gift to a guy! It is so girlie, I don't know why he would take that!? But I have a ton of candle holders, so whatever.

I see some more things gone, however there are a lot of things he has left. We will see if it remains that way. I really don't want this to be a battle.

Job - if I changed the locks or alarm code, he would be furious. If he had done that to me, I would have flipped. This house and everything in it belongs to both of us so that would seem really unfair. And I am a very fair person. I will put valuables away and call him out if needed. When I had moved out, I still came and went as I wanted and he always respected that, never said anything to me. So I am digging for that same respect. He also had told me to take whatever I wanted...

Ugh, I am home on lunch and he just showed up. No work clothes, in his truck, interesting. And I am here...surprise surprise. Very very sneaky....