Jim - sorry, that would be painful to receive.

Playing devils advocate - so what that your family can't send things direct? Why should that worry W?

I'm with Toots - I'm not sure what you mean by taking care of it with Royal Mail. Can a person be registered at 2 addresses?

Could you say (not sure that text message is best format): I got a leter confirming post rediection for you and the kids. I would like for kids to retain an address at my house so my family can continue to post to them directly. They are after all with me more than 40% of the time. Going forward, can we please discuss things before we make changes. Thanks.


H 37 Me 36
Together 15 years
Married 5 years
No kids
BD Apr 2014
H moved out 2 Jun 2014