Thank you all so much for your support, and for weighing in on the morality clause. I think you're right that it's futile, and I'll just have to urge my daughter to speak up for her self if she is uncomfortable with her dad's actions. I'm trying to let go, really. The whole thing brought up a lot of sad feelings for me, a sense of abandonment and such. I don't even want him back, but the rejection of our life together and our family still stings. I've been feeling so good about moving forward up until now -- I guess the emotional setbacks are to be expected.
M: 43 H: 39 D: 14 Married 15 Together 16 BD: 6/2014 S: 8/2014 OW revealed 10/2014 Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress So over it!