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I am not sure if that will work on my W as she is super strong willed so I fear what approach generally works for most women might not for her.


Toots is right, there have been tons of men to say the very same thing about their WAW'S. Just as the similarities exists in the LBH'S, so it does with the WAW'S. You may have to trust us on some of this until you see for yourself.

Right now, your fear is talking to you. If you will conquer the fear of losing her, you will have won the battle for the most part. I want to tell you something that I hope will stick in your mind. Ready? I have my first time to ever read a newcomer LBH's thoughts of what his WAW was thinking.....that was ever correct. And if you'll notice, I have quite a few posts by my name.....and I have read even more. smile

There are a couple of reasons you will not be able to think like her. One, b/c she isn't like she use to be.....she has changed. Two, men and women are different in most things, and especially this area of trying to think like she would.

Yes, you know your W, but we know about the WAW. I promise the more you pursue her, the further away she'll get. The more you pull back, the more she will pursue you.

Make yourself less available and especially less eager to engage in a conversation. Remember, use as few words as possible.


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!