" I am not sure if that will work on my W as she is super strong willed so I fear what approach generally works for most women might not for her."

Hi Vdubber - re: the above...many DBers say this about their WAS. You need to trust the process on this one. Whilst WAS's all have their differences, there are some things that seem to work pretty much universally. Try it for a week or so and see how it goes.

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T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus