Seperated and she is with someone - I'm desperate

[vdubber]

Thank you sandi. She had texted "do kids have money on lunch acct?" and i responded "idk, if so not much".

I have heard of the pull back and they move towards you "dance" but I am not sure if that will work on my W as she is super strong willed so I fear what approach generally works for most women might not for her.

I want her to keep trying to contact me just so I have a sense she gives a damn but I know I need to stay the course with regards to my responses hoping it gives me the best chance for eventual reconciliation.

Thinking too much today I guess :-(