I think dating is a different animal for all of us. I have no desire to date at this point because I was so taken by surprise and hurt by XH. Not that I think all men are like him, I just prefer to work on myself for awhile.

I don't have anything against meeting new folks and enjoying a cup of coffee (well, it would have to be tea, since I don't drink coffee, but I digress) with someone or the like, but I, for me, am just not ready to pursue trying to date and meet single men and the like.

If/when I am ready, I will think about it, but for now, it is just me and the dog and I am good with that. smile


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids