Good, you met with a friend and got out of the house.

The more you step back, the more your W will pull toward you. Like a dance.

For now, when she texts with kids stuff that seems to be just an excuse to contact you, learn to answer with one to three words. B/c the more words you use, the more she sees your emotional attachment to her.

Good job!

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!